I Have A Problem

I have a problem with cutting people off and not caring about their feelings or how it may effect them. Although my reason for cutting them off is valid it’s the way that I do it that may be a problem. I’m the type that if I feel you did something to me that was wrong, and I’m referring to minor issues, then I cut you off mentally and literally. Your dead to me. At that point you have left a ‘nasty taste in my mouth’. Meaning you have made me see the real you, I don’t like it, and I’m not going to deal with you. That has been my motto for years!!!

Today I was reminded that perhaps I should talk it out instead of cutting someone off. I only talk things out if I know without a doubt it can be resolved. If not I just leave it alone and go about my business.

Let me get to the point.

Today I was told that my cutting was noticed….. no one outside of my family has ever really noticed it. Other people have accepted it and moved on.

To make a long story short the situation was discussed and I’m happy that it was. The other party wanted to move forward and I wanted to as well.

I’m shocked. Mainly because I knew the situation wasn’t serious to them and it was for me. That’s my reasoning behind cutting because I know they won’t care….turns out some people do care….

Peace